Thursday, April 17, 2014

My poor, poor Husband

While I'd love the title to be a sarcastic hit at Nate since he's not the one gaining weight like it's his job, peeing every 5 minutes, or getting his bladder kicked and punched.... It's really a sincere comment that I want to say while pinching his cheeks. You see, even though he's not the one pregnant he has to listen to me complain about it 24/7. All day. As soon as he comes home from work.. before he goes to bed.. while we're making dinner.. while we're out to dinner... on text messages throughout the day... it. never. ends.

Poor guy must get tired of it.

And speaking of poor... Baby Maddie is already so expensive. I mean, she needs $60 moccasins in every color and bows that match. Duh. Of course I ask before I make the shoe and accessory purchases but it's already hard for him to say no to his sweet baby girl. or I'm just really good at asking for things. Either way, poor guy is literally feeling poor right now.

I'm only 22 weeks pregnant. He has 18 more weeks to go. EIGHTEEN! that's a lot of complaining and buying for me and a lot of listening and forking over money for him. He acts like it doesn't bother him though. He rubs my feet, my back, scratches my head, and even does the dishes if I make dinner. He's quiet when I'm napping and he never wakes me up. He eats what I want to eat because he knows my taste buds aren't like what they used to be. He walks and plays with the dog. He put together the crib and stroller without a complaint.


Even though I'm not feeling very confident, he makes me feel good. Tells me I'm beautiful, and all that jazz. I'm actually thinking he likes the "softer" me more than the abs and quads.... or he's just doing that to make me feel better. He's always rubbing my stomach hoping to feel one of her flutters and he always gets so happy when I tell him when I felt them that day. I'm anxious to meet her, but I'm more anxious to see Nate become a dad because I know he'll be so good at it. It's one of those qualities that I saw when I first met him. He's one of the good ones and this whole pregnancy thing is making me love him more and more every day.

But enough about him, let's talk about me. Like I said before, I'm 22 weeks pregnant. I'm pretty sure I've gained 30 pounds and I feel it.

It's hard for me to sleep at night since I can't get comfortable and I'm up using the bathroom. Last night I got up FIVE times to pee!! Girlfriend is comfortable on my bladder but it's not comfortable for me. My tailbone still hurts and oh my gosh y'all I AM HUNGRY!!! All the time. There's never a time when I'm not hungry. I'm just waiting for my doctor to tell me to slow down on the eating because it's getting out of control. I'm tired, but that's nothing new, and I feel like I'm constantly fighting for more sleep. It's a hole I can't get out of. My belly is starting to show! Lots of people have pointed little Maddie out this past week and that's been a new experience.

It's a view for me that I'm not used to. I still have a lonnng way to go but I can't wait!!! I wish it were August already!... and so does Nate. He's ready to meet her and for my complaining to stop. We'll see....... 


  1. OMGGG. Stahp. You are the tiniest cutest little bump I ever did see. 30 lbs my booty.. I bet it's like 5.

  2. Your husband is so sweet! No one can say no to cute moccasins or hair bows, no one.
    You look absolutely AMAZING, your bump is adorable!

  3. You don't look like you've gained much weight at all! Just a cute little bump :) the eating is something I can't get used too... I eat more so therefore I feel way more huge than I am!! Glad everything is going good thus far:)

  4. you look freaking beautiful, and i lov ethat nate is taking this all in like a champ. can't wait to meet maddie!

  5. How is it possible to look so amazing pregnant? I want to hate you, but you look too pretty and I can't..

  6. My doctor told me my grand weight gain at 25 weeks this week.. and I was like what the what/!?! ... ugh!